By Motunrayo Williams-Johnson
Welcome to another evening of sex talk. Many homes have completely lost touch of love as a result of the attitude of the parties involved.
Some of us ask whether sex is food. Thank God for a mother figure who told us at a webinar that sex is food.
How do you pay attention to your partner’s sexual life?
Men are naturally wired to “fuck”. I can do without sex for years and I have met some women who told me same. So, majority of women are guilty of this. We do not prioritise our husband’s sexual life to mean anything.
For your information, there are professionals out there who sees sex as food. While you are there lamenting on his weaknesses, somebody is working on your husband by feeding him and giving him overdose of sex.
Don’t be decieved, religion will not help you.
I agree there are factors that hinders women from flowing with their habitual sexual life.
Some women would have been superb sexually but their husband’s negative treatment will always hinder the flow.
Women think deep. We are more detailed than the men.
(1) The negative attitude of a man affects so much. Your bad character of 20 years ago still hinders her from attaining orgasm.
(2) Lack of love which might lead to separation or married but not staying together.
(3) Some women naturally dislike sex.
(4) Shouldering of responsibilities by the woman is a major factor.
HOW TO GET THE BEST OF HER SEXUALLY
(1) Be remouseful when you have offended her.
(2) Avoid embarrassing her before your children, family and external people.
(3) Let her live a fulfilled life. Don’t rob her of her individuality. She had a personality before marriage, let that still be in the marriage.
(4) Share in her good and bad moments.
(5) Take good care of your wife in order to get hot “fuck”. Although, there are some whom no matter the care will still not allow peace to strive in the home.
Ibi ni maa fi adagba ten si.
I remain the Founder of Kami Empowerment Foundation
Motunrayo Williams-Johnson