By Kingsley Obom-Egbulem
The author of the carousel(in this post) was introduced to drugs in 1981 while at Howard University. (Note the university because it’s like saying you were introduced to drugs at Havard.) So, what would make someone take to drugs in Havard or Howard? I’ll leave you to figure that out.
For more than 20 years, Randall Horton lived on cocaine and other vices associated with a life of drugs until he was finally convicted on three felony counts and served 18 months. All through his days in Virginia prison, this son of a well-respected educator and mentor to several young men saw the true love of a father. “My dad came from Birmingham to Virginia prison to visit me and remind me that he’s never given up on me,” he wrote in his tribute to his dad.
Imagine helping other young men escape the life of drugs, crime and gangs but being unable to help your son escape these vices. That was the shame and pain Randall’s dad endured while seeing him in prison.
“In return, I’d promise I’ll never be placed in a cell again”, writes Randall.
His last prison bid ended in 2000. And he’s been a renewed man ever since. Horton is a Professor, with a PhD in English & Creative writing.
Some fathers are indeed heroes to their kids. But we all know that It’s easy to be a hero to a great kid who’s topping his/her class. How about that wayward child who’s doing drugs or sleeping with every boy? Can you still be his or her hero?
I am always awed anytime I remember the story of Sarah Jakes, and how her dad, popular American preacher, Bishop TD Jakes responded when she got pregnant at 13 and became a mother at 14 out of wedlock. Sarah could pass for a wayward daughter, contrary to what is expected of a preacher’s daughter. Today, Sarah’s story is different. She’s described as a pastor, prolific speaker, preacher, businesswoman, best-selling author and of course mother and wife. All because of a father who had the strength to love her despite her mess.
That’s fatherhood at its finest.
We desire to raise excellent kids. However, if they do drop the ball, fall and miss their way, let’s help them get back up again. That’s what REAL Fathers do.
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