A Ghanaian woman and mother of three from Dunka in the Ashanti Region has left viewers stunned after claiming she never saw her husband’s manhood throughout their 13-year marriage.
The woman, identified as Abena Asantewaa, made the startling revelation while recounting her troubled marriage on Oyerepa Afutuo, a popular relationship show on Oyerepa TV.
According to her, despite having three children together, she never once saw her husband’s private part during their entire marriage.
“I have never seen my husband’s manhood before. Even if someone asks me what it looks like, I would not know what to say. Despite having three children with him over the past 13 years, I have never seen it,” Asantewaa said.
Asantewaa, who has now separated from her former husband, Emmanuel Amuzu, a Church of Pentecost elder, also alleged that her husband forced himself on her during intercourse and that she often cried during their intimate moments. She described their sexual life as distressing and non-consensual.
She said she regretted the marriage, which she described as unhappy, emotionally draining, and plagued by poor communication and unresolved conflicts.
Beyond the marital allegations, Asantewaa is demanding a refund of GH¢300,000, which she claims she spent on items listed on her family’s marriage list before their wedding.
According to her, Amuzu was building a house at the time they were preparing to marry and told her he could not afford to provide the items on the marriage list. She alleged that he asked her to buy the items herself with a promise to reimburse her later, but he never fulfilled that promise.
She further claimed that he failed to account for part of the money that was realized during their wedding ceremony.
Asantewaa revealed that she reported their marital difficulties to a church elder for counselling, but her husband allegedly questioned why she had taken their private issues to the church leadership. She claimed the elder described Amuzu as a holy and respectable man and advised her to be patient with him.
In a more shocking twist, she alleged that the same elder bought a pornographic film for her husband to watch so he could learn, but Amuzu ended up watching it alone without involving her.
Asantewaa disclosed that Amuzu has since remarried, and she alleged that he married her best friend. She also said she is now in a new relationship, but insists that Amuzu must refund the GH¢300,000 she claims to have spent on the marriage list.
When contacted on the programme for his side of the story, Amuzu denied owing her any money and dismissed her financial claims.
The host subsequently directed Asantewaa to present the official marriage list for examination to help verify her claims and resolve the financial dispute.
The story has since sparked heated debate on social media, with many Ghanaians expressing shock, disbelief, and concern over the revelations
